5 Things a Brain-Damaged Person CAN DO!

I started this blogpost calling it:

What Can a Brain-Damaged Woman Do? A LOT!

We all joke about “brain-damage.’ I’m no different—I do too! We forget something or mis-speak—“Oops! Brain damage!” Many  people who actually live with brain damage—their own or a loved one’s DO make jokes about it. Sometimes you just gotta laugh. But let me tell you: Brain Damage is NO JOKE!

“A brain in a terrible thing to waste.” I always agreed with that commercial. I still do. But not until my own brain was really WASTED did I really appreciate how serious that statement really is.

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When I was a kid—adults (my parents, my school teachers, other people I met who taught me things) all told me  “you have a GOOD brain.” When I was a young woman—I dated men who told me they ‘appreciated a woman with a big brain.’ (I also dated men who didn’t appreciate that so much. Hmm–if someone doesn’t appreciate you—need it be said? Bye-bye…)

But seriously: with so many people today dealing with brain damage of one kind or another—maybe it’s time we took brain damage seriously. Really seriously. Because we’ve learned so much about the brain since that terrible thing happened to me to injure mine—& yet so many people are living scared, confused, & with little or no hope for a better life. When I became brain-damaged, the mainstream medical belief was that brain cells could not regenerate, so they told me I’d never get better. I chose not to believe that & began doing everything I could to BEAT it!

Expect Miracles

It was a horrible time to be the only one who believed I could get better. But a couple of years after they told me “brain cells don’t regenerate, you’re not going to get back your sight & you won’t get better & you’ll probably get worse” –some wonderful scientists discovered that brain cells DO regenerate! I found not only was I on the right track—I was ahead of the ballgame!

So here I am—this once “BLIND & BRAIN-DAMAGED FOR the REST of YOUR LIFE” person. I’m learning all kinds of new things. I’m not a tech person by far—yet I’m learning how to make my own website myself, how to create & edit videos, & learning creative programs. Each new thing I learn helps my injured brain get even better than it was. Sure—there are things I used to be able to easily do that I now have to find other ways in which I CAN do them. There are some things that I may never be able to do again. There are some things I’ve never done that I have yet to discover! Imagine!

It makes me mad when I hear about people who experience brain injuries having the people who SHOULD be encouraging them to get better discourage that instead & expect them to give up on the richness of life! That’s just so wrong!

Here are 5 things a Brain-Damaged PERSON—Woman OR Man CAN DO: 

#1—You CAN FIGHT it. The only way you can guarantee that you won’t get better is if you don’t try. So try… & try again… no matter HOW many times & how many tries it takes—if you really WANT to do something… KEEP TRYING to DO IT! They say a reporter once asked Thomas Edison how it felt to fail as many times as he did before he made the light bulb that worked. The numbers vary with the telling of the story—1,000, 5,000, 10,000 times before he achieved success. Edison is reputed to have said: “I have not failed 10,000 times. I have successfully found 10,000 ways that will not work.” Then—success at the 10,001st try! Imagine if he’d stopped trying! So you CAN choose to have a FIGHTING SPIRIT & KEEP TRYING to DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO!

#2—You can learn to work WITH it & around it. If you can’t do it THIS way—try another way. I’m not saying it doesn’t try my patience when I’m not getting something the way I USED to… but I’ve learned all kinds of tricks to help myself. It’s OK to need help. We ALL need help sometimes. If I cannot achieve something in the way I USED to—& I’m the classic “Mother, PLEASE—I’d RATHER do it my SELF” kid—but I’ve finally learned to & DO ask for help! I’ve learned to explain very clearly HOW to assist me so that I CAN. I USED to have such a good memory people told me I had “a mind like a steel trap.” These days—if I don’t write it down… chances are I’ll forget. But then again, so do a lot of other people who DON’T have brain damage…so really? I don’t feel so bad about it. & it’s OK if it doesn’t come out perfect right away! I’m just learning my way around this blog program—& so WHAT if it doesn’t look perfect yet? I’m DOING it & you’ll see—it’s going to get better all the time!

#3— You CAN TAKE the TIME that you need to DO WHAT YOU’RE PASSIONATE ABOUT. Even if it takes a LOT longer than it used to. Give yourself that break. I’ve always had high expectations of myself & sometimes I get SO frustrated that I’m not ‘getting’ something the way I used to. But I’ve always believed if there’s a will— there’s a way. Accept that it may not be the way you USED to do it. Of course… we all go through changes—so there may be things you USED to be passionate about & able to do that are just not that important to you now. You MAY discover you want to do NEW things that you’ve never done before! So— like anything that’s WORTH it—if you really WANT to do it—take your time & FIND the way. When you find something you’re passionate about, you’ll be surprised how much patience you can have with yourself to fulfill that passion! As you do—your life will become so much more rich & full of meaning!

& while you’re doing it—make sure you demand the reasonable accommodation you need to DO IT! We have this law in the USA called the ADA (Americans With Disabilities Act.) It mandates ‘reasonable accommodation.’  That means that the rules that exist for people who have not been some way disabled need to be adjusted in a reasonable manner that can provide better ACCESS for those of us who are facing bigger challenges than the average bear. I’ll talk about THAT in a future blog… but for now—let me just say:  ‘reasonable accommodation’ is not like ‘every kid wins a prize’ just for being there. It’s something that says—if you’re physically challenged–in a wheelchair or not—public places have to make sure you can GET to them like the people who can walk up stairs can. If you need a service animal—whether a seeing eye dog or one trained to assist with PTSD or if you have seizures, that service animal needs to be with you. If you’re deaf or blind or have another type of ‘impairment’ where you can’t take in information like the rest of the kids… public facilities—including schools & courts are mandated to provide interpreters who can even the score to help you take in the information you need like the ‘other’ people can. Sadly—ask any Disabled Person how often that ‘reasonable accomodation’ actually happens… but we’ll talk about that in another blog… on another day…

#4— You can CHOOSE to BELIEVE YOU CAN HEAL. I have to tell you: I’m not ‘supposed’ to say that word ‘HEAL.’  MD’s in the USA no longer use the word “HEAL.” I guess they’re not allowed to either. You’ll hear them talking about ‘treating’ & ‘managing’ diseases or whatever ails you. But while Dr’s in other countries CAN & DO still talk about HEALING—you won’t hear that from a Dr in the USA. I talk about the history of that—how I witnessed that come to be as I was growing up— in my book, “Zeeva the Art of Wellness.” In fact—according to the powers-that-be—the FDA & the FTC —pretty much no one who is involved in any kind of health-related field in the USA—whether as a professional practitioner or a salesperson or distributor of health-related products— is allowed to use the word “HEAL.” That’s legal & official here in the good old USA.

SO I HAVE to TELL YOU: I’m not a Dr. I don’t practice Medicine. I don’t diagnose or prescribe anything. I’m an artist. A storyteller. And though the stories I tell you are true—I tell you only to inform, entertain, & inspire you. That’s my Standard Required Disclaimer & I stick to it.

#5—YOU CAN NEVER GIVE UP! As a person who was diagnosed with brain damage, told it was permanent, & told just how many things I’d ‘never be  able to do again’ I can tell you that I take some pretty serious umbrage at that ‘not being allowed’ to use the word ‘HEAL’—because I did. I healed my brain damage which was both diffuse & extensive!  No matter how many Dr’s told me “No” I refused to give up! True—I was always also the kid who wouldn’t take “No” for an answer. I could take “Not now” or “Not yet” IF there was a reasonable reason. My Mom finally got smart & would say “In time, you CAN… but not yet…” So if you have a kid who can’t take “No” for an answer… just remember—that just might save his or her life one day! It sure saved mine!

So… is my brain COMPLETELY healed? Good as new? The very real truth: no it is not. Yes, that makes me mad sometimes. It makes me frustrated. But my brain is now a heck of a lot better than many ‘perfectly good brains” that were never damaged at all & I can do a lot of things ‘THEY’ told me I’d never be able to do again. And imagine: I haven’t even discovered YET—all the things that I CAN do!

So stay tuned! JOIN me as I take back my life & SHARE the Art of Wellness & Living Life Well… this really IS an Interactive Work-in-Progress! As I develop this site (remember—I’m not a tekkie–but I’m doing it ALL myself– so HOW ‘brain-damaged forever’ is THAT?) I’ll be adding things from my bags-of-tricks & YOU can participate & help me!

So thanks for sharing this time with me & please COMMENT! I WANT to know what you think & I have SO many things to share–your comments will help me know WHAT of the things I LOVE & have to SHARE you want to see on this site!  IF YOU DON’T SEE a COMMENTS SECTION below this post—just GO to the TITLE of the BLOGPOST & CLICK on that! When your page refreshes—come back to the end & I promise you—the COMMENTS section will be there! Just another little kink to work out as I learn my way around! THANKS for joining me & I’ll see you next time!

BE YOUR BEST & BE WELL! LIVE WELL! & oh yes… ALL WAYS… LOVE WELL!

Zeeva

Free to Do Anything

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A Life-Saving Lecture from Dad

Remember when you were a teenager? Maybe you’re  teenager right now! We all get those lectures from our Dads–we roll our eyes, we tap our feet, but if we really listen–they do mean well–we might learn something we never expect can save our life one day!

I’m an artist–but a scientist who loved me–my Dad was an MD/MedProf/Researcher/Institute Director– taught me about the brain when I was just a kid. That’s how I knew the MD’s just had to be wrong when they said I’d be ‘brain-damaged & BLIND—forever.’ As a dancer & artist who grew up inside mainstream medicine, I learned a LOT about health & wellness, how-to be well, & I learned a lot about holistic health & wellness! When the worst that could happen happened to me—-I had to figure out how to get well again. Some call me a brain-injury survivor. I call myself a brain injury VICTOR. All the MD’s said I’d NEVER SEE & NEVER get WELL AGAIN! I believed in miracles. I knew how to make miracles & I became a miracle! I GOT BACK MY SIGHT & my WELLNESS & became an inspiration for many people who demanded I share HOW! No joke: when people learned that that “poor blind woman” could now SEE–I got over 10,000 e-mails & letters asking HOW I did it! I wrote a book to answer all those questions–it’s called ‘Zeeva the Art of Wellness: The True Story of How Z Got Well Again & YOU Can Too!’ WON’T YOU GIVE ME a THUMBS UP on the vid? & I invite you to follow my BLOG! It’s been a long road & filled with adventures–some bad, some good, & I’ve done a lot of interesting things & met a lot of interesting people along the way!

And oh yes—BUY the BOOK! You can get it direct on AMAZON.com HERE: http://goo.gl/DmiuN8 or you can click on the picture of the book (to the right of this blog.) Even if you just click on that pic to see what it’s about & what your ordering options are–please do me a favor & click that FB LIKE button–y’all know that matters! & if you don’t mind–choose the Amazon option as that will help my new book get that coveted Amazon rating & THEN you can add your Amazon review once you read it! You KNOW that MATTERS too!

JOIN me as I take back my life & SHARE the Art of Wellness & Living Life Well… it really IS an Interactive Work-in-Progress! As I develop this site (& I’m not a tekkie–but I’m doing it ALL myself–HOW ‘brain-damaged forever’ is THAT?) I’ll be adding things from my bag-of-tricks & YOU can participate & help me! & Please COMMENT! I WANT to know what you think & I have SO many things to share–your comments will help me know WHAT of the things I LOVE & have to share you want to see on this site! THANKS for joining me & I’ll see you next time!

A brief speech, a presentation to the City of MECDA's Healing Through Dance Program for Women & Girls at-Risk, an Invocation...& I announced: “LET the DANCE BEGIN!”

When Zeeva was BLIND-#Throwback Thursday

April 29, 2003 Zeeva brings the art of Dance to the Los Angeles City Council on the International Day of Dance
April 29, 2003 Zeeva brings the art of Dance to the Los Angeles City Council on the International Day of Dance
In 2003, Zeeva was blind and dependent on supplemental oxygen. Her white cane & her oxygen tank were her constant companions. Here, Zeeva & Dancer, Choreographer, Teacher, Writer, Producer, & Arts Activist Marta Schill listen to City Council proceedings, awaiting their turn.
In 2003, Zeeva was blind and dependent on supplemental oxygen. Her white cane & her oxygen tank were her constant companions. Here, Zeeva & Dancer, Choreographer, Teacher, Writer, Producer, & Arts Activist Marta Schill listen to City Council proceedings, awaiting their turn.
The event began with the Pledge of Allegience.  L-R Marta Schill, Zeeva International, Los Angeles City Councilwoman & supporter of the Arts Jan C. Perry... as to what followed? "the wildest "Morning Moment of Inspiration" the Los Angeles City Council had ever seen, as reported the following week by The LA Weekly: ”there had been nothing like it since fictionalized Owens Valley herdsmen ran their sheep through this very hall to protest the theft of their water."
The event began with the Pledge of Allegience. L-R Marta Schill, Zeeva International, Los Angeles City Councilwoman & supporter of the Arts Jan C. Perry… as to what followed? “the wildest “Morning Moment of Inspiration” the Los Angeles City Council had ever seen, as reported the following week by The LA Weekly: ”there had been nothing like it since fictionalized Owens Valley herdsmen ran their sheep through this very hall to protest the theft of their water.”

 

A brief speech, a presentation to the City of MECDA's Healing Through Dance Program for Women & Girls at-Risk, an Invocation...& I announced: “LET the DANCE BEGIN!”
A brief speech, a presentation to the City of MECDA’s Healing Through Dance Program for Women & Girls at-Risk, an Invocation…& I announced: “LET the DANCE BEGIN!”
NO ONE coming to the Los Angeles City Council meeting that day expected anything like this! The majestic doors of the hall were thrown open-music began to play-& a bevy of beautiful Dancers-ages 19-77-entered...to bring Dance "to where it normally is not."
NO ONE coming to the Los Angeles City Council meeting that day expected anything like this! The majestic doors of the hall were thrown open-music began to play-& a bevy of beautiful Dancers-ages 19-77-entered…to bring Dance “to where it normally is not.”
The Dancers entered the Council circle, bringing beauty & grace & joy & INSPIRATION to where just a few moments before was contention & frustration. When Zeeva got back her sight & saw this photo of her beautiful dancers among the politicians...she titled it "The Sacred & the Profane." Though I've spoken to LA City Council many times since on other ARTS issues--they all say "OH! Zeeva International!" & smile, remembering the belly dancers! SO MUCH GRATITUDE to ALL who DANCED that day, & to former LA Councilwoman Jan C. Perry, a great supporter of the ARTS, who helped make it happen!
The Dancers entered the Council circle, bringing beauty & grace & joy & INSPIRATION to where just a few moments before was contention & frustration. When Zeeva got back her sight & saw this photo of her beautiful dancers among the politicians…she titled it “The Sacred & the Profane.” Though I’ve spoken to LA City Council many times since on other ARTS issues–they all say “OH! Zeeva International!” & smile, remembering the belly dancers! SO MUCH GRATITUDE to ALL who DANCED that day, & to former LA Councilwoman Jan C. Perry, a great supporter of the ARTS, who helped make it happen!

Did you know I was BLIND for more than 5 YEARS? It was the hardest time in my life! But even blind, I did my best to keep Art alive in my life–knowing that ART HEALS!  I started life very young as an artist & dancer… & ART–when I say ART–I mean ALL the ARTS: that which we know in the USA as Fine Art (painting & sculpture,) Music, Dance, Poetry, Theater, & some or ALL of them combined in what we call today “Performance Art.” But from childhood–I was always an activist–doing work for my communities in the areas of ARTS, Environment, & Human Rights.  I’d been blind for more than 5 years & getting ready to travel south of the border for holistic treatments unavailable to me in the USA  when my friend & sister-dancer Marta Shill gave me a call. “Have you heard?” said Marta–then President of MECDA–the SoCal Dance, Culture, & Music association she’d co-founded more than a quarter century ago, “UNESCO’s challenged dancers worldwide: on this coming International Day of Dance, bring DANCE where it normally is NOT!” I began to visualize… Of all the many beautiful places in Los Angeles I still held in my mind’s eye where Dance was NOT–where could we bring DANCE? WHY NOT CITY HALL? So we DID!  The MUSES were delighted & the Gods must have been pleased. A few days l left for a Holistic clinic in Mexico… & returned with the gift my SIGHT regained…

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Life is a creative Work-in-Progress… welcome to mine.

Like my life–this site is an interactive WORK-In-PROGRESS! As we go along, I hope you’ll tell me what you would most like for me to share of my passions, & what I’ve learned in my journeys. I will humbly do my best, honored to serve.

I’m a lifelong artist, dancer, storyteller, mythologist, adventurer, activist, performance artist, peak performer, peak performance consultant, & Reiki Master who was decimated by Acute Toxic Chemical Exposure in 1998 & told I’d be BLIND & Brain-Damaged for the rest of my life. “You’re never gonna get better,” said all the MD’s. “Take these drugs & go into a board & care.” I grew up on the INSIDE of American Medicine & Medical Education-& so chose Holistic for my personal health style when I was a kid. THAT saved me when the MD’s & Western medicine gave me up for a goner. Today I write, make art, am an Ordained Minister, Reiki Master, & online High Priestess of Body-Mind-Spirit Natural Health & Wellness, LOVE & TRANSFORMATION. 

I live in a state of LOVE. In love with life. In love with the world. In love with nature & people & my friends & all that IS.  Coming back hasn’t been easy & I’ve had LOTS of adventures… then… that’s what life is–isn’t it? There’s a lot to learn & I’m doing this all by myself–me–the once-blind woman, learning how to create videos, create my website, & now that I finally got the BOOK –the one that so many people who’d followed my story on Holistic forums demanded I write– I can finally take back my life as a CREATIVE BE-ing again… this site will change & grow as I do, & I’ll SHARE what it’s been like SINCE I became a Miracle– & as you tell me what I have to share that YOU are most interested in!

But for NOW–I’m SO EXCITED to share that my BOOK is now available & here’s the link to GET it:  http://outskirtspress.com/zeevatheartofwellness
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YES–I promise I AM improving this Page, very soon–I’ll be ADDING Pages & Categories for you to have a lot of FUN with!  But for the moment–I’m not some well-off person & my book marketing will have to a be REAL GRASSROOTS event for now! So I am AM very grateful as you help me get the word out & SHARE with everyone you know! I want EVERYONE to LIVE WELL & BE WELL!

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